5 Things About Support When We Fall Down

At times we fly, other times we fall. We often wonder who will be there to break the fall, but sometimes and for some people, it's always no one. Those people will somehow be stronger on the inside mentally because they have learnt that it's always okay to just mend your wings with little help or just individually.

Fake friends and true friends

This probably has drilled and mend a huge hole in our lives mainly because we are able to see the people who will always be there for you and the people you just simply call "friends" because there's no other term to call them. It's good to shake away those "friends" and make place for the ones who really care for you.

You got yourself into this, but you're not going to get yourself out alone.

You wont be able to win every battle life throws at you. At times, you will have to be like Icarus so just enjoy the free-fall. You'll meet kindred spirits that'll give you that warm feeling and strength to embrace the fall. They may not stop the fall, but they'll help you throughout and mend you after the fall.

The people who mind doesn't matter.

I think this is the best thing I'd like to hear when i'm down. The people who mind really doesn't matter. The people who criticize or judge you don't even try to put themselves in your shoes. They just think within the framework of their own selfish perspective. It's a very simple reason, they just don't matter. 

The ones who are there to help you are the ones who have helped you with the little things in life

Life sure is full of surprises when the people you thought would come to help you did not and the unexpected ones are those who lend a helping hand. It's cute and heart-warming to know that they are here for you instead of those who didn't turn up when they said they would. 

Embrace the fact that you have no one and trust yourself that you can make it

During the times when you have no one at all, you just to acknowledge it and trust yourself in mending your own wings. It's hard but it's a good experience. Come out strong and make your mark so that everyone will know that you are capable. 

Stay happy.

Love, C.